1. In what ways does following the way Jesus lived help us in our marriage? 2. Read John 1:1-4,14 together. In John 1:1-4,14 it says that Jesus, “the Word,” was with God in creating everything and that in fact He is God. God became human and took on pain, suffering, and sacrifice. He did this… Read More ›
1. A popular Christmas song reminds us that this season can be fun. Oh, what fun it is to ride In a one horse open sleigh O’er the fields we go Laughing all the way Bells on bob tails ring Making spirits bright What fun it is to laugh and sing A sleighing song tonight…. Read More ›
1. Technology can be a blessing sometimes and a curse at other times. John Tudor said, “Technology makes it possible for people to gain control over everything, except over technology.” Technology can be a blessing but it can also be all consuming. When you think about television, cell phones, computers, video game systems, movies, music… Read More ›
1. Read Colossians 1:9-12 out loud and together. Verse 11 talks about how Paul prays for those in Colossae. He prays they might have great endurance and patience amongst other things. Endurance and patience are nice concepts but grueling to live out at times. Endurance reminds me of mile 20 in the marathon when I… Read More ›
1. What are you most thankful for in life right now? 2. Why do you think it is important to talk about the things that you are thankful for? 3. On a scale from 1 to 10 how often do you think you communicate your thankfulness with those around you? (With 1 being never and… Read More ›
1. What are some of your favorite holiday traditions and why? 2. Is there any tradition that we want to keep alive this year for Thanksgiving? 3. Is there any tradition that we want to start this year for Thanksgiving? 4. Is there any tradition that we want to keep alive this year for the… Read More ›
1. A good definition of intimacy is in-to-me-you-see. It is when we communicate what is going on inside of us so that our spouse can know us more. A key to intimacy is self-disclosure. Take turns talking about your thoughts and feelings in regards to the thing you are most excited about in life right… Read More ›
1. Read Colossians 3:12-14. What does this passage say about forgiveness? Why do we need to forgive? 2. Proverbs 10:12 says, “Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs.” How can this verse help us resolve conflict in our marriage? 3. Can you think of a time when you were granted forgiveness for… Read More ›
1. How would you rate the quality of communication in your marriage on a scale of 1-10 with 1 being non-existent and 10 being perfection? Why? 2. What is one thing that you have a hard time communicating to your spouse? 3. Can you identify any barriers to your communication? 4. Take turns verbally communicating… Read More ›
(A marriage appointment is not considered a date.) 1. What do you consider to be one of the best dates you have been on as a couple? 2. When is the last time you went on a date? 3. What keeps you from going on dates regularly? 4. How can you overcome the obstacles to… Read More ›
